Someone gave me the following example: Picture an apple tree. The apples at the bottom of the tree, are easier to access and any ol’ man can walk by and grab any ol’ apple (or lady). The apples at the top of the tree require special handling. They’ve been set apart. It will take a special man to make it worth his while to climb that tree and look for God’s best. Most men will settle for the less work and grab the woman with easiest access (mostly sexual). But there ARE men, true men of God, that will decide it’s worth the effort and there ARE women who have removed themselves from the bottom of the “tree” to makes themselves less accessible. Ladies, these men are worth waiting for! Enjoy the view from the top of the tree. This position gives you GREAT discernment!